Questions I would like to ask God

There are a few questions which I would like to ask God. These have been in my minds for sometime.

1. Why is that people change when they become rich? The behaviour when they get Rs.5000/- is normal. When they get above Rs.25,000/- they start advicing others about career and speak as if they are great and other Indians are fools. When they get Rs.50,000/- and get a car and marry and if they are happy why do they laugh at people who got divorced and speak as if they are successful and others are a failure? Why do they pass comments on others life? Why do they lose their mental maturity and feel as if on top of the world? Only these people have taken birth in this world. All other living beings, animals have come without purpose? Why do they forget their own past and humble beginnings?

2. Why is that people who are succesful always insult people who are not succesful? Why don't they have the maturity to stay humble and quiet?

3. Why is that people who are succesful advice people sarcastically? I have observed that during my childhood. The worst is that as far as I know the person affected or humiliated would be a true devotee.

4. Why do You punish good people and give everything to the wicked? As far as I know when wealth gets accumulated people behave like evil. In my opinion, Hitler is a good person than these people. At least he did evil things only for the sake of Germany. He did everything for his motherland as Germany was humiliated a lot and he wanted to take revenge for that.

5. Why doesn't the younger generation obey the elder generation?

6. Why are parents skeptical about income about the boy and always wants their daughter to get married to an US return mapillai than a good person in India? They are willing to give their daughter to a Software Engineer in United States but not to a guy in normal job. That Software Engineer's hobby be watching strip tease in San Francisco, f****** random girls in hotels and returns to India to boast about so called culture and insult my country. Seriously God, I wanna ask you onething. Are such acts so great? I find that only such people are gifted a lot in life by You.

If I had a sister and if she wants me to choose a bridegroom for her, I would rather give her to a poor boy than to a rich guy who f**** random girls.

7. Why are cinema people portrayed as Heroes than the soldier who really fights for his country in the border?

Lots more to ask.....

-Krishna Kumar.S

6 ways to irritate Vimalakar

Vimal is one of my friends. Read the line carefully. For me all are equal!! But Vimal gave me the permission to write this article and it is published only after Vimal said,"YES" to the content.

So Ladies and Gentlemen! Let's start pulling Vimal's leg!

Few ways to irritate or surprise Vimalakar:-

6. Send an SMS at 12'o clock and ask Vimal,"Gandhi did Uppu Satyagraha for kal uppu or podi uppu?". LOL. At midnight he replied,"Iodised salt". I was amazed at Vimal's prescence of mind.

5. If you are working in night shifts and you return home only at 3 in the morning, send a good morning SMS at that time. Vimal doesn't puts the mobile in silent mode. Once I called him at that time too!

4. Praise MTC bus services a lot! And send those MTC updates when he has his lunch at 1330hrs.

3. Disappear without notice for two weeks without any notice!!!! This happens a lot of time when I am in job, NIIT classes or even in some thicksoup.

2. Ultimate: Do a railfan/travel trip with him and travel as far as 400km+ away from Chennai somewhere near Dindigul and Madurai. No return journey tickets should be booked in advance. The only option now is to return by bus or by a sluggard passenger. This would severely irritate Vimal as he hates slow journeys on hot days. And also he hates buses! Once Vimal and myself were returning from Madurai to Tiruchi by bus. It turned out to be a hot day. That was way back in May 2008. That was the last bus trip with Vimal. Since then Vimal is quite afraid to do any bus trips with me and makes sure that there is a train involved in any journey.

1. My future plan is to go on a roadtrip to Villupuram, Vijayawada, Hyderabad, Salem, Virudhachalam by normal bus(red color bus) with Vimal. Right now, I am busy with NIIT classes, but once things are settled I am planning for this trip!

-Krishna Kumar.S

28 things about ME !

Seven things I wish I could say to the people whom I like:-

1. I have always cared for you irrespective of what I do. I am depressed if you are unhappy.
2. Without you, I wouldn’t have achieved progress in anything.
3. Thanks for being a part of my life.
4. Love you a lot. I respect you a lot. I might not say it explicitly.
5. You care for me a lot, than I care for you. I am a bit selfish in any relationship. I reap more benefits generally than others. You need not do anything for me. Just be with me! I will make a meal of anything.
6. If you really care for me and if I am not realizing it please do tell me openly during a personal conversation. Sometimes I am dumb.
7. You are precious to me.



Six things the world doesn’t knows about me:-

However things might turn drastically if my sentiments/feelings are hurt for a long period of time. This would lead to a mild withdrawal. If I don't find any changes in character, I would withdraw permanently. Generally, I don't wish to confront or hit back at anyone as I believe that if I do so I am sinning. I would love to treat everyone equally and give them respect but it may not work always.

1. How much ever the relationship is whether higher or lower, I have great respect for all humans. So I would still continue to love every human.
2. Even if anyone backstabs, betrays, I won't take revenge but I know it almost immediately. Neenga Vaazga valamudan. Thanks for being a part of my life.
3. Not all people are granted rights and permission to comment about my personal life, procedures, failures, thoughts. Hurting my personal sentiments and core feelings would result in my permanent withdrawal from your personal life without any second option. You will be losing my friendship if you are my friend, you would be losing me entirely irrespective of how you are related to me! The above holds good for any relationship. I am also a human being. I might be successful, I might be unsuccessful too. Try to respect my feelings. If you are successful without any problems in life, I appreciate you. Congratulations!

Just remember two rules if anyone needs to be my friend.

Rule 1: Don’t hurt anyone and boast before them as if you could have done it better.
Rule 2: Don’t forget Rule 1 if you want to be my friend.

4. I have diverse interests in life ranging from technical information, information collection, statistics, cultures and traditions, lifestyle, geography, demographics, photograph, civics, history, travel, computer games, music.
5. I would love to treat everyone equally with care and affection.
6. Irrespective of caste, faith all of my school friends, college mates, colleagues, neighbors are important to me(whether GIRL or BOY) and it is my duty to protect them as they have been a part of my life. Please don't comment about their personal lives infront of me or don't try to defame them in their abscence or in my prescence. I care for them. They may not be having a good life. They may not be rich or may not earn as much as you do. So please...Don't suppress the unfortunate. Life evens out in the long run and nothing is permanent. I don't approve anyone adding girls from my Orkut list or scrapping them or asking me to give their mobile numbers or asking to give an intro for kadalai. I may not get angry, but certainly I won't approve such actions.



Five turn ons/interests:

1. Reading about my God Vishnu and His virtues, the USSR, Socialism, gathering information, submarines, airplanes, cutlure, traditions, lifestyles, dances, playing with animals, World War 2 computer games.
2. Professional behaviour, dedication, seriousness.
3. 6713 Sethu Express in full speed! 2656 Navjeevan Express in full throttle! 103 Pondicherry passenger train blasting between Guindy and Tambaram.
4. Some Western music like Backstreet Boys, Michael Jackson and some Indian music.
5. Chat items! Tandoori items! Chilly Parota.



Four turn-offs:-

1. Passing on comments, loose talks, gossips, talking about my future life and predicting my life on how I would be when I am 30 or 40, gossiping about what I would do if my future wife doesn't likes travel like me, where I would be going for honey-moon, asking my salary, commenting about my life. Don’t say,” After marriage you would be like this, you would be like that”… Come on... Even my parents aren’t granted this permission. Not all are granted permission to pass comments about me.
2. Advise…. If you really want to advice me, advice me with true care not to simply boast that I am absolutely wrong and as if you are absolutely right. I don't get irritated, but I am laughing within myself.
3. Don’t boast too much about yourself before me! I would be laughing inside.
4. Don’t insult my country before me. If you do, you are insulting my origin.



Three things that I wouldn’t change even if I am busy or stressed:-

1. I am living life in my own way and I am quite content with it.

2. I believe in saving money. I would prefer a public transport to commute even if I have a private vehicle. I would like to sleep on the floor in a mat without A/C. My father served the Government for 40 years and he commuted all time in bus even during the days he was rich with his own private car. He has helped a lot of people come up in life and it's because of him many are successful in life and earning in lakhs. Even when I was need, I wasn't given, but others were helped. That's the spirit of this soil of India. Proud of it!

When I was young, I lived a conservative lifestyle and my father managed to bring me up and at the same time made other children to study and many are living a successful rich life only because of his timely help. My father could have spent more money on me too! But he believed that it was necessary to help others and many people are rich today thanks to him. I would like to stay where I am and be like him. I know the pains he took to earn money.

3. Watching Tom-Jerry, reading articles in wikipedia, travel-writing, writing about my Lord, spending quiet moments in Indian villages, interacting with animals, interacting with children, playing computer games. I do find time to play games even now.



Two things I am afraid of:-
1. Syringes!
2. Common cold and viral infection. Sore throat!



One thing that I would like to tell you:-

1. I like dealing with professionals. Maybe when it comes to corporate life or club activities I would accustom with people as every human being is important to me as after all Humans are God's best creations. When it comes to personal life and personal relationships, I have my options and I would try my best to do good. I like dealing with people who don't boast, who remember their past and those who are humane towards other fellowmen. It doesn't matter whether it's Wipro or Cisco or whether you own a Ford Ikon car with a fat package every month.. To establish a personal relationship, people need to be humble. Your appearance, finance background, wealth, your job, your brand names aren't important to me.


-Krishna Kumar.S
(10/08/2009)