28 things about ME !

Seven things I wish I could say to the people whom I like:-

1. I have always cared for you irrespective of what I do. I am depressed if you are unhappy.
2. Without you, I wouldn’t have achieved progress in anything.
3. Thanks for being a part of my life.
4. Love you a lot. I respect you a lot. I might not say it explicitly.
5. You care for me a lot, than I care for you. I am a bit selfish in any relationship. I reap more benefits generally than others. You need not do anything for me. Just be with me! I will make a meal of anything.
6. If you really care for me and if I am not realizing it please do tell me openly during a personal conversation. Sometimes I am dumb.
7. You are precious to me.



Six things the world doesn’t knows about me:-

However things might turn drastically if my sentiments/feelings are hurt for a long period of time. This would lead to a mild withdrawal. If I don't find any changes in character, I would withdraw permanently. Generally, I don't wish to confront or hit back at anyone as I believe that if I do so I am sinning. I would love to treat everyone equally and give them respect but it may not work always.

1. How much ever the relationship is whether higher or lower, I have great respect for all humans. So I would still continue to love every human.
2. Even if anyone backstabs, betrays, I won't take revenge but I know it almost immediately. Neenga Vaazga valamudan. Thanks for being a part of my life.
3. Not all people are granted rights and permission to comment about my personal life, procedures, failures, thoughts. Hurting my personal sentiments and core feelings would result in my permanent withdrawal from your personal life without any second option. You will be losing my friendship if you are my friend, you would be losing me entirely irrespective of how you are related to me! The above holds good for any relationship. I am also a human being. I might be successful, I might be unsuccessful too. Try to respect my feelings. If you are successful without any problems in life, I appreciate you. Congratulations!

Just remember two rules if anyone needs to be my friend.

Rule 1: Don’t hurt anyone and boast before them as if you could have done it better.
Rule 2: Don’t forget Rule 1 if you want to be my friend.

4. I have diverse interests in life ranging from technical information, information collection, statistics, cultures and traditions, lifestyle, geography, demographics, photograph, civics, history, travel, computer games, music.
5. I would love to treat everyone equally with care and affection.
6. Irrespective of caste, faith all of my school friends, college mates, colleagues, neighbors are important to me(whether GIRL or BOY) and it is my duty to protect them as they have been a part of my life. Please don't comment about their personal lives infront of me or don't try to defame them in their abscence or in my prescence. I care for them. They may not be having a good life. They may not be rich or may not earn as much as you do. So please...Don't suppress the unfortunate. Life evens out in the long run and nothing is permanent. I don't approve anyone adding girls from my Orkut list or scrapping them or asking me to give their mobile numbers or asking to give an intro for kadalai. I may not get angry, but certainly I won't approve such actions.



Five turn ons/interests:

1. Reading about my God Vishnu and His virtues, the USSR, Socialism, gathering information, submarines, airplanes, cutlure, traditions, lifestyles, dances, playing with animals, World War 2 computer games.
2. Professional behaviour, dedication, seriousness.
3. 6713 Sethu Express in full speed! 2656 Navjeevan Express in full throttle! 103 Pondicherry passenger train blasting between Guindy and Tambaram.
4. Some Western music like Backstreet Boys, Michael Jackson and some Indian music.
5. Chat items! Tandoori items! Chilly Parota.



Four turn-offs:-

1. Passing on comments, loose talks, gossips, talking about my future life and predicting my life on how I would be when I am 30 or 40, gossiping about what I would do if my future wife doesn't likes travel like me, where I would be going for honey-moon, asking my salary, commenting about my life. Don’t say,” After marriage you would be like this, you would be like that”… Come on... Even my parents aren’t granted this permission. Not all are granted permission to pass comments about me.
2. Advise…. If you really want to advice me, advice me with true care not to simply boast that I am absolutely wrong and as if you are absolutely right. I don't get irritated, but I am laughing within myself.
3. Don’t boast too much about yourself before me! I would be laughing inside.
4. Don’t insult my country before me. If you do, you are insulting my origin.



Three things that I wouldn’t change even if I am busy or stressed:-

1. I am living life in my own way and I am quite content with it.

2. I believe in saving money. I would prefer a public transport to commute even if I have a private vehicle. I would like to sleep on the floor in a mat without A/C. My father served the Government for 40 years and he commuted all time in bus even during the days he was rich with his own private car. He has helped a lot of people come up in life and it's because of him many are successful in life and earning in lakhs. Even when I was need, I wasn't given, but others were helped. That's the spirit of this soil of India. Proud of it!

When I was young, I lived a conservative lifestyle and my father managed to bring me up and at the same time made other children to study and many are living a successful rich life only because of his timely help. My father could have spent more money on me too! But he believed that it was necessary to help others and many people are rich today thanks to him. I would like to stay where I am and be like him. I know the pains he took to earn money.

3. Watching Tom-Jerry, reading articles in wikipedia, travel-writing, writing about my Lord, spending quiet moments in Indian villages, interacting with animals, interacting with children, playing computer games. I do find time to play games even now.



Two things I am afraid of:-
1. Syringes!
2. Common cold and viral infection. Sore throat!



One thing that I would like to tell you:-

1. I like dealing with professionals. Maybe when it comes to corporate life or club activities I would accustom with people as every human being is important to me as after all Humans are God's best creations. When it comes to personal life and personal relationships, I have my options and I would try my best to do good. I like dealing with people who don't boast, who remember their past and those who are humane towards other fellowmen. It doesn't matter whether it's Wipro or Cisco or whether you own a Ford Ikon car with a fat package every month.. To establish a personal relationship, people need to be humble. Your appearance, finance background, wealth, your job, your brand names aren't important to me.


-Krishna Kumar.S
(10/08/2009)